Sometimes, one partner from the union will try to make their twin flame relationship fit an unrealistic mold of a new age projection of a quick-bonding, highly evolved couple destined to change the world. Putting it another way, they attempt to attain what’s not real, unaware that in doing so they end up damaging what is.

Part of the beauty of a twin flame union is that it does not fit any mold. It is unique.

Focusing instead on the depth of the bond instead of worrying about what it looks like on the outside ensures that, as twin flames, you are emitting the right signals to each other and to the universe that guides you.

Remaining in the frequency requires letting go of everything that isn’t really you, including paradigms, ideals, and beliefs that no longer serve you.

The foremost purpose of your twin flame relationship is for you and your partner to evolve to your highest, spiritually conscious form—which won’t be the same for everyone—and discover a greater ability to have a happy, fulfilling life.

It is about praying together, trusting your intuition, and following the universe’s signs.

Keeping it real isn’t always easy, but it always begins with being honest with yourself.

Blessings and love,


Mary Dunlop's latest book, Healing the Inner Feminine: Bringing Sacred Union to Life, is available in ebook on this website and at all Amazon online stores : 

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