How often do we hear that the secret to the Twin Soul/Flame is to detach? LOL, right? Easier said than done. However, truth is that whether your Twin Soul is in physical or in spirit, you feel the connection strengthen when you are relaxed and not overly attached to the other or to your idea of whom you perceive your twin soul partner to be.

Attachment is human. Even when we get attached too quickly or to the wrong people, we are expressing a natural impulse.

Sometimes attachment is about approval. In other words, the degree of how attached we become is amplified by the insecurities we carry. Understanding and, in some cases, forgiving ourselves for this begins to lighten the load.

Attachment is a load. It is a burden that hinders our connections and prevents real connection from coming through.

Attachment becomes heavy; it can get unhealthy; and it affects your peace of mindespecially when the one you are attached to is not loving, accepting, or approving of you. If this is your situation right now, replace the need for his or her love with a deeper love for your soul.

Start loving your Self through compassion and forgiveness. Remember, no matter what you've done, it was the best you could do in the moment. If necessary use positive imagination and affirmations to help you, because once you fully accept and love yourself, the other's approval will mean little to you and your deepest desires will magnetically begin to come true. 

Blessings and love,


Mary Dunlop's latest book, 'Betsey's Retreat: The Power of Twin Soul Love Book II,' is available at…/…/1537794906/ and all Amazon online stores.


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