If we are not aligned with our natural energy we risk gravitating toward people whose energy type bogs us down. As a result, either we or they will find the relationship difficult or will suddenly lose interest in the connection. This won't be anybody's fault. It won't mean there is anything wrong with either partner. Quite simply, it denotes that our energies don't align.

When something like this happens, it also doesn't mean that our energies won't synchronize in the future. Sometimes, this only serves as a sign indicating that we must be true to our own core energy before seeking connection with another.

If we are not in sync with our natural energy, we forget about our needs and wants very easily. Often we sweep them aside to pleaseor to more powerfully attractthe other; but, unbeknownst to us, our soul revolts against our actions.

Our soul is wiser than our mind and heart put together. It knows that wanting to be with another person 24/7, or not wanting to do much without them, or incessantly thinking about them is unconducive to its growth. As a result, we subconsciously create a shield of energy that protects us against our feelings and our actions—and—it keeps the other at bay so that we may work on ourselves and realize our individual power.

Blessings and love,


mary dunlop